Dashain 2023: Celebrating Tradition Amidst Change

Rakesh Rajbhat 12 Apr 2025

As the crisp autumn breeze sweeps across the hills and valleys of Nepal, the country readies itself for its most cherished festival—Dashain. Known as Bada Dashain or Vijaya Dashami, this vibrant celebration symbolizes the victory of good over evil, commemorating the goddess Durga’s triumph over the buffalo demon Mahishasura. For generations, Dashain has been a time for families to unite, celebrate, and seek blessings from elders through heartfelt rituals and lavish feasts. But as Nepal changes, so too does the way Dashain is experienced, especially as migration and separation alter the fabric of familial togetherness.

The Traditional Significance of Dashain

Dashain has always been about more than rituals—it is a time of renewal and reflection. Spanning 15 days, the festival culminates with Tika, a day when family members receive blessings in the form of red tika (vermilion) and jamara (sacred barley grass) placed by elders on their foreheads. This powerful symbol of protection and prosperity connects generations and fosters a sense of continuity in Nepali culture.

The feasts, too, are an integral part of the celebration, with families coming together to enjoy traditional dishes like goat meat, rice, and sweets. Homes are cleaned, decorated, and filled with warmth, symbolizing new beginnings. In this period of joy, the essence of Dashain lies in the strengthening of bonds—between family members, friends, and communities.

An Empty Festival Amidst Empty Homes

This year, however, Dashain 2023 feels different for many Nepalis. Migration, a defining feature of Nepal's recent history, has transformed the very core of this family-centered festival. For decades, workers have left Nepal in search of better economic opportunities in countries like Qatar, Malaysia, and the UAE. More recently, a younger generation has been pursuing higher education in the USA, Australia, Japan, and beyond, often leaving families incomplete during the festival.

The migration has led to a new reality—homes across Nepal that once overflowed with laughter and love now feel quieter and emptier. Traditional gatherings have, in many cases, been replaced by virtual interactions, with families relying on video calls and online platforms to bridge the geographical divide. Though the festive lights continue to illuminate the streets of Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur, many homes find themselves missing key family members, adding a bittersweet layer to the joy of Dashain.

Resilience Amidst Separation

Despite these emotional challenges, the Nepali spirit remains resilient. Families have found ways to adapt, ensuring that the essence of Dashain endures. Loved ones working abroad often send remittances back home, allowing families to partake in the festivities and maintain cherished traditions. The exchange of blessings—whether through phone calls, video chats, or digital messages—reminds everyone that love transcends borders, reinforcing the bond of togetherness that Dashain seeks to nurture.

In communities, neighbors and extended family members have stepped up to fill the void, sharing meals, laughter, and the responsibility of keeping the festival alive. This collective effort reflects the deeper meaning of Dashain: unity and support, even in difficult circumstances.

Embracing Change with Gratitude

As Dashain 2023 arrives, it’s essential to recognize that while the festival may not feel the same for everyone, it continues to represent the enduring strength of Nepali culture. It’s natural to miss the physical presence of loved ones, but it’s equally important to acknowledge their sacrifices. Those who leave Nepal to work or study abroad carry with them not just their dreams but the hopes and aspirations of their families. This Dashain, we honor them, recognizing the resilience and love they continue to contribute to their families from afar.

Conclusion: Celebrating Dashain in Unity

Dashain 2023 may look different from previous years, but its core values—family, unity, and resilience—remain stronger than ever. As we gather to celebrate, let us remember that family is defined not by distance but by love and connection. Though many of our loved ones may be far away, their presence is felt in every prayer, every blessing, and every shared meal.

This year, as we celebrate amidst change, may we draw strength from our traditions while embracing the new realities that come with them. Let us celebrate the undying spirit of Dashain, cherishing the memories we create today and looking forward to the joyful reunions of tomorrow. Wishing everyone a blessed and joyful Dashain filled with love, resilience, and hope for the future.

Happy Dashain 2023!